Friday, January 9, 2009

PROBLEMS COUPLES FACE

Problems couples face

THERE ARE various problems couples face. A little a bit fighting or criticisms is present for every relationship, until this fight does not change into a big fight.

1. Poor Communication:

In today world, it is hard to believe that two people have poor communication. It is one of the major problems, we have suffered right now. Due to the high paced lifestyle people don’t have enough time to talk with their life partner. And, when we don’t have constructive and good communication between us, then misunderstanding arise which is harmful for relationship.

Solution: Give enough time to your partner and communicate with them as much as possible or whenever you get free time.

2. Sex Problem:

Sex is not most important thing but it is not less important. Today, we have more extra marital affair than ever before. Sex will become the bien reason to break your fruitful relationship.

Solution: If you are young couple, then have sex twice or thrice a week otherwise once a week is bien for you. And when you are start doing this, you will feel rejuvenate in your relationship or life.

3. Financial or Money Problem:

Money problem is another main reason to fight between couples. It is basically spenders v/s savers. He/she love to spend, you don’t.

Solution: You can easily solve this problem, tell your partner that, everybody spending style is different from other and it may have little or nothing to do with you.

4. Bad habits:

Smoking, drinking and junkie are old problems, but still we don’t have any exact solution to solve this problem. After drink, the mind does not work properly and people start doing stupid things like abusing, fighting and create unnecessarily problem in their relationship.

Solution: Don’t drink, but if you want booze, then drink occasionally and behave like a decent human after drink.

5.Cheatings, No love & mutual respect:

Love, mutual respect and cheating all these things are co-related to each other. If, you don’t have any kind of love in your relationship then you never show any mutual respect to your partner and always think of cheating you partner.

Solution: Develop love with your partner; now don’t ask how to develop love? It’s totally on you.

Here are few options: candlelight dinner, romantic date or something else.

Published: www.merinews.com
Writer: Rakesh Bhandari

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